Sex With Emily

Ever wonder what happens behind the scenes of your favorite porn? Today I’m joined by adult film director Jacky St. James and performer Ana Foxxx. We discuss their hottest scenes, what it’s like being on set, what constitutes ‘ethical porn’ and whether porn actors fake their orgasms.
Plus, Jacky walks me through her approach to creating an adult film and how porn industry has evolved over time. Ana shares what it’s like dating as a porn star, details from her dirty 30 birthday party and how porn has shaped her sex life on and off-screen. We also answer your questions like: is porn scripted or spontaneous and is it normal to get jealous when your partner watches porn?
In this episode, you’ll learn:

What really happens on a porn set, from fake orgasms to real chemistry.

How porn shapes real-life sex and what actually feels good.

Why ethical porn hits different with real pleasure, real connection, and no male gaze.


Show Notes:

More Jacky St. James: Website | Instagram | Twitter (X)


More Ana Foxxx: OnlyFans | Instagram | Twitter (X)


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Valentine’s Day is here, and we’re making it hot. Whether you’re single, partnered, or just here for the pleasure tips, I’m joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to talk all things intimacy, gift ideas that actually turn up the heat, and how to keep things exciting beyond February 14th. We’re covering the best sexy gifts (hello, remote-control vibes), why curiosity is the key to lasting passion, and how to avoid becoming that couple scrolling at dinner.
Plus, our wildest V-Day stories—think surprise proposals, foursomes, and one very awkward TSA moment. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. 💋
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to make Valentine’s Day sexy—whether you’re single or partnered.

Why curiosity keeps intimacy alive (and how to avoid stale relationships).

The hottest pleasure products to upgrade your solo or partnered play.


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Show Notes:

More Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website | Podcast


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Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner.
We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to disclose an STI and still have an amazing sex life.

Why shaving might increase your STI risk (and how to avoid it).

Why HPV is common—and totally manageable.


Show Notes:

More Dr. Ina Park: Instagram | Website | Twitter (X)


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Tired of repeating the same relationship mistakes? Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins me to break down the nine hard truths about love that will change your life. From healing heartbreak to understanding why you keep attracting the wrong people, Jillian shares how true love starts with you.
We’re talking about breakups, dating struggles, and why lust isn’t love (even though it feels amazing). Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode will help you build healthier connections and finally get the love you deserve.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to break free from toxic dating patterns.

The red flags you’re probably ignoring.

Why self-acceptance is the key to love.


Show Notes:

More Jillian Turecki: Instagram | Website | Podcast


Order Jillian's Book, It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life, Now!


Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.


Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 


SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure


Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

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I’ve heard from a lot of my listeners that they struggle with talking dirty in the bedroom. Today I’m joined by porn star, author, exotic dancer, and dirty talk expert Joanna Angel to break down what to say, how to start if you’ve never tried it and how to crank your dirty talk up from dusty to undeniably filthy.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Dirty talk made easy with simple tips to start and spice it up without feeling awkward

Sexting secrets to tease, turn on, and build anticipation like a pro

Confidence in the bedroom by owning your desires and feeling empowered in and out of bed


Show Notes:

More Joanna Angel: Linktree | Instagram | Twitter | Book


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Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.


Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. 


SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)

The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure


Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website 

Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube


Let’s text: Sign up here


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