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The month in review (audio newsletter) + my highlighted post from October!

So this Big S Self stuff actually comes down to "having feelings and using them." How mundane. In that case WHY IS IT so hard to find big S Self / spiritual stuff in Psychology? .... The influence of Behaviorism and the worst parts of man! Lez talk about Motivating Operations (the only suggestion that emotions/inner events matter), with the caveat that "actually emotions still don't count." Annnnnd git real about how this links up with free will / societal oppression. 

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btw .. I do end up covering that paper. on psychology repressing Self, per some other scientists. Traumatized mother sucker over here. But here's the crumb version of that followup!

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It's the shorty video version of the more detailed video just published!

So "spirituality" = knowing your Self from inside

And we just spoke about Psychology cutting both from the team per my education in Behavioral Science

Now here's that paper I told ya we wouldn't cover, because it was cooler than I thought. It's the peer-reviewed history of cutting emotions, beliefs, and needs out of Psychology... and why it needs to be put back in (their words)

MORE!!!!

Sister Post! Self repression in Psychology
Previous post! Self in Psychology Literature
All the crumbs leading up to this talk

Lil baby summary video!

So this Big S Self stuff actually comes down to "having feelings." In that case WHY IS IT so hard to find big S Self / spiritual stuff in Psychology? .... The influence of Behaviorism and the worst parts of man! Lez talk about Motivating Operations (the only suggestion that emotions/inner events matter). Annnnnd git real about how this links up with free will / societal oppression

Self Stuff!
Compassion Crumb
The Big Ass Self Crumb
Don't make it weird Crumb
You do need a Self Crumb
Mystical-type experiences for healing Crumb
Inner Mystical Expeirence Soberly Crumb
Self in Psychology Long version!Self in Psychology Crumb! Under 5 minute video versionBonus! Lit article on spirit/Self being rid from Psychology

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LYRICS: 

Hey little girl who made you cry

I can see the hurt by the look that's in your eye

I'm feeling pushed and pulled around

You're draining me, please just let me out

You woke the witch filled with spite

My doll will judge your sins tonight

Ribbons binding and entwine

Your heart is linked right to mine

For you I yearn and yearn and yearn

For me you burn and burn and burn and burn

This pain I feel makes me alive

Without it I don't think I can survive

Make him pay make her pay

How could they do this to me

Different face, same mistakes

Don't get too close stay away

Ribbons binding and entwine

Your heart is linked right to mine

It's time you get what your deserve

Come play the villain in my own curse it's a curse

I drive this pin into its core

The doll and I fall to the floor

These wounds are mine I feel the shame

Now conscious I'm the one to blame

This wound runs deep like deja vu

What's done is done I can't undo

This path of woe serves me no more

Fear can't rule if it's not ignored

Ribbons binded start to untwine

I'll free myself the right way this time

My ruined heart I'll liberate

Rise from the prison I create I create

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Song Production, recording: NuMogulMedia https://linktr.ee/numogulmedia 

mixing and mastering: Matt Goings    / @mattgoings  #obsessionmovie #darkpopmusic #voodoo